What all new things rush through into your life all of a sudden just after marriage? It is none lesser than a whole new makeover. A completely new family, new set of rules, new home, and a new person ready to accompany you for the rest of your life in all times. Be it love or arranged, this person is supposed to be the most special person in your life. Forget about the new ones, even your relatives, parents, and friends expect you to be different- in the sense of appearance, demeanor and feeling towards this change. Its not that I am against anything. Only that your personality cannot change overnight. Changes are good but it dos not change the way one wants to carry oneself. The acceptability to these changes can develop differently in different people.
Anyways, it feels good that people treat you very nicely, make you feel important. Coming to the point of the most special person thereafter, the feeling again cannot develop so easily without the emergence of immense respect for each other, necessary for the bond. Definitely, one tries to build that bond on the hope that there is one whom you can trust for everything, surrender your ego and give in for best future ahead.
Looking at how things have appeared in my life, I am very hopeful of a bright future. it is a very special feeling to marry the person you love the most. Its sort of a triumph over whatever hurdles we expected and a dream turning into reality. Moreover, I have a loving mother in law, who doesn't nag for anything but rather understands and supports me in the changed scenario against any odds. But for her caring and supportive nature, things would not have been that smooth. My love for my husband grows to even greater depths when I see how he fights for my freedom and gives me enough space to live my life the way I want to. We have already understood each other well enough to lead our lives peacefully. So my aspirations are right there in place, along with my social life intact.
All these things make me feel confident of a superior power who listens silently and patiently to our prayers and gives them at the right time. I felt like sharing my elation with those who matter to me, because I believe their consistent confidence in me has been a prime factor to whatever I have got. Fortunately, i have realized recently that I haven't lost even a single special friend and the bond between us has only enriched into a very special one. I just wish I am able to continue doing some good on this earth so that I deserve this beautiful wondrous gift from God.
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